how to increase passion and intimacy between couples?

Before we delve deep into this topic there are some of us who are passionate and some who are not passionate or detest passion.intimacy is the need of the hour for most of us not priority.so how many of us want a passionate relation ship or real intimacy?it is claustrophobic to many.so we got to first self analyse as to how romantic are we?

passion is romantic obsession with the partner and intimacy is privacy personified.

so unless it dips in our lives we need replenish it and both passion and intimacy should not be in overdose too.

why passion and intimacy dips?

often we compare our passionate and intimate love life to our courtship days when

• both the partners are their smiling best
• try to impress each other
• constantly compelled to be desirable
• constantly obsessed to be non repelling
• wear a mask covering the inner desires
• curious to explore each other physically and emotionally
• anxious to confirm whether we will ultimately attain each other

so much so that after marriage all these takes a back seat and we take each other for granted.now that we know that we are for ourselves and only ourselves there is no competition .passion dips because there is no yearning or wooing each other.

prechild birth vs post partum

prior to baby birth couples adore each other and spend time with each other because they have ample time for themselves. they caress kiss flirt play and are fun-loving carefree and have all the time in the world. we compare this post partum when we have duties responsibilities a baby to look after and tend to .passion dips intimacy is next to impossible

work hours extended

after courtship and marriage we suddenly have a desire to become home makers and home builders that the girl is busy taking-care of the family needs and the guy works to save penny to build his fortune and score success in his material world that he compromises on his passion and intimacy because his priority changes

these are the obvious reasons for dip in passion and intimacy

how to boost intimacy and passion in our lives?

cultivate primitive behaviour and natural instincts

forget that we are sophisticated and civilised and watching a television and working in front of a computer . - we got to remember that we have animal instincts and cultivate them coupled with primitive behaviour because ultimately that is what which propagates the species and protects us and procures food.let us remember to be animals of nature

daylife-night life

day-life is the material life . night life is not the wild partying but what we got to give each other in a relationship. wholly . prepare thyself with a fresh bath and perfume and charming look with an appealing attire.

tips to boost your pasion and intimacy scores

• have a healthy appetite
• coochy coo
• cuddle
• kiss
• tease tease tease

utilise all the special senses-

1. listen to music,
2. have colour play in dresses,
3. add vibrant colour background
4. smell fresh and nice
5. tasty sweet meats chocolate,champagne,cherries and strawberries , honey etc.,
6. tactile tactile tactile cuddle touch tease etc.,

pep up with humour-extra score

• healthy jokes,
• naughty jokes,
• anecdotes,
• memoirs,
• pics,
• photos,
• travel memoirs etc.

be less inhibited

• awaken the naughty,
• haughty,
• sexy,
• prankster

in you

the wilder side

1. wear costumes and attires and make love
2. read the kamasutra together
3. try tantric sex yoga
4. discuss aphrodisiac
5. sensual massage
6. perfume bath
7. discover erroneous zones
8. search for moles and characteristics
9. physiognomy and results
10. wear each others dress
11. whisper fantasies
12. have idols and peers of passion
13. nibble
14. love bites

to conclude

1. appreciate and give marks for being romantic and passionate
2. have a physical mood clock -indicate your mood
3. fiercely guard your privacy
4. watch romantic movies together in an intimate setting
5. select lingerie and under garments to suit your taste
6. flirt with each other
7. date each other
8. court afresh like new lovers after a small quarrel